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Dr. Glenn Frisch
Welcome to February! I hope that the New Year is
finding each of you well on your way to what you desire for 2005.
This month's ENews is a varied lot! I had no set
agenda of topics that I wanted to cover so I decided that a potpourri was
in order. So, you won't find a 'theme' with this issue.
I do, however, touch on what I feel to be serious and
significant material. The first article is my thoughts on one of, if
not the most important, emotional drive that we have, HOPE!
Hope is a realization that is met and understood, but
unlike George Bailey in 'It's a Wonderful Life', we don't get to peek into
the future. We must make the right choices today. After
reading this article, you may look at the world somewhat differently than
before.
Following my personal interpretation of hope, I have
included an updated article on Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity
Disorder. The Medical community continually strives to find answers
with ADHD, but this article shows why this discovery is so hard.
The next topic is on Shin Splints. I continually
speak to patients about low back and leg pain being the result of an arch
problem in the feet. Anyone who has ever been a runner realizes how
important the arches are to performance and how debilitating it is when
your 'arches drop'. Shin Splints, however, can happen to anyone, at
any age.
This month, Eileen has provided a wonderful recipe for Cherry
Cheesecake (Remember Valentine's Day!). This was her mother's
recipe. The love of your life will smile when this melts on his or her
tongue!
Finally, I revisit the topic of mouth and jaw pain
resulting from trauma to your neck and head. TMJ or TMD pain
and dysfunction is more involved than earlier thought. The jaw is
actually a part of central nervous system and brain function.
I talk daily, and yes sometimes I do preach, about how we
are integrated beings and that your toes are your knees, and your knees
are your hips and low back, etc...
This German research on TMJ/TMD was actually printed in a
Dental Journal. They are beginning to understand the mechanism of
the imbalance, but they are unable to treat it because it is actually a chiropractic
problem that relates to 'structure and function' and not to the mouth.
Chiropractic is based on neurology, rather than on
bones. The nervous system controls structure and function. The
treatment given at our office focuses on neurology and how it commands the
healing process.
Those of you who are patients know that at this point, I
could pretty much talk for hours, but it's time to let you read on........
Enjoy this issue of ENews
Dr. Frisch
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HOPE

What is it that drives each of us to get out of bed in the
morning, go to work each day, carry on relationships with others and even
plan for the future? The answer to each of these questions is the
same....HOPE! Hope is not about winning the lottery or pining after
an attractive man or woman. Hope is related to goals, but they are
not the same. Hope is much more involved than that.
Hope is an internal instinctive realization that
matures with age and brings 'meaning' to life.
Here is an example of hope:
A boy grows into manhood looking forward to going on to
school and becoming a lawyer, marrying and having a family, but not
necessarily in that order. (These would be goals or aspirations,
but not necessarily hope.)
Now, that young man did go on to complete law school and
build a moderately successful law practice. He also fell in love
with an attractive career woman who professed similar life goals and
desires as he did, including a family. (These again are goals and
achievements, but not hope.)
As their marriage flourished, a family soon
followed. Both parents were nurturing and attentive to the children
and each other. Their respective careers were productive and
satisfying and provided a comfortable life for their family.
With time, the couple began to realize that what was
important in life was not financial success, even though it was nice, but
rather, the interpersonal relationship that they had with each other,
their family members and those around them. They realized that the
reward of life was being able to be productive, share of
themselves, and enjoy the self-satisfaction that accompanies
it.
This realization of life and
the projection that it continue
..... is Hope!
This scenario, however, could have been
different. Let's suppose:
The young lawyer actually hated being a lawyer, but needed
the money to pay student loans, and then a mortgage, braces, private
school, etc. and he stayed trapped in an unsatisfying career, waiting for
the day that he could somehow retire. He hated going to work, but he
felt that he had no choice.
OR
The marriage may have been one of convenience for either
or both, and their personal relationship may have been non-existent, with
the exception of a couple of children to make it 'a real family'.
The home life became nothing, but chaos.
I could continue with many different, negative scenarios,
but what is important to realize is that when someone feels trapped
without a direction of productivity in one or more aspects of life,
hope is at risk. The most serious thing that someone can lose is
hope. You can lose a limb, or worse, but to lose hope is to become
unproductive in a downward spiral of despair that may have dire
consequences!
To lose hope in life results in a loss of focus of why you
exist, and the satisfaction that comes from mature realizations. To
lose hope is akin to starvation, the end is apparent, only the timeline is
variable.
The Remedy
Hope is not dependent on any one outside factor. In
times of turmoil some people turn to the church looking for answers, while
others may turn to their family or friends. Outside influences may
give you comfort, encouragement and direction, but only you can realize
hope!
This is a quick and simple exercise to aid in the
realization of hope. These are questions that you ask of yourself on
a daily basis.
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Who ...... Who is doing what?
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What ..... What am I doing?
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When .... When am I going to do it?
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Where .... Where will it occur?
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How ........ How will it happen?
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Why ........ Why am I doing this?
One method of achieving and maintaining hope is to
question ourselves on a regular basis. These questions will bring
focus, clarity, and direction to daily life. We may not like the
answer, but at least the question has been examined and a realization
met. Change results from direct, personal examination, rather than
following of the 'herd' mentality. Hope is the result of a life
realized. Some people can lose hope and never realize what they
missed.
Hope does not occur because a set
of guidelines has been met, but rather, because a realization was allowed
to come to fruition.
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