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Eileen's Corner
Corned Beef and Cabbage
1 (3-4 lb) fresh corned beef brisket
6 black peppercorns
3 whole cloves
1 clove garlic
1 bay leaf
6 medium onions
6 medium potatoes, peeled and halved
6 carrots
1 head cabbage, cut into 6 wedges
Place meat in large Dutch oven or heavy pan, cover with water (1 1/2 -2
quarts). Add peppercorns,
cloves, garlic and bay leaf, bring to a boil.
Reduce heat to simmer. Cover
and simmer 2 1/2 -3 hours. Add
onions, potatoes, and carrots ; cover
and simmer 20 minutes. Add
cabbage; cover and simmer until vegetables are tender (20-25 minutes)
To Serve: remove
vegetables with slotted spoon to large platter.
Slice meat at a slight angle into 1/2" slices and arrange on
platter with vegetables.
Serves 6
Have a Great St. Patrick's Day!
Eileen
What Does it Look Like?
Since we have been talking about trauma and whiplash, I
thought it might be nice to actually show you what whiplash looks
like. Remember, whiplash is structural damage and not just
sore muscles!
Normal Neck Curve
Whiplash Reversal Curve
Impaired Function on neck flexion. Look at the
'stair stepping' on the back of the vertebral bodies. The
ligaments that support the neck are damaged and the neck is moving around
much like a 'slinky'.
As I stated earlier, whiplash is a structural trauma to
the spine that doesn't go away on its own. Chiropractic care
is needed to stabilize and correct the injuries.
Chiropractic care is based on structure and
function. Asking your MD to treat this type of problem would be akin
to asking your dentist to fix your heart condition. They wouldn't be
very good at it!
Be smart after an accident and call your chiropractor
for an evaluation. The pain with this type of problem may not begin
for weeks or months, but the healing process begins right away!
Don't allow 'bad' healing to begin.
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Do I Love Me Too Much?

Have you ever wondered why some people seem so selfish or
do things in their life that are 'self-serving' and hurt others around
them?
The term for that behavior is Narcissim and it come
from a Greek myth in which Narcissus rejected all lovers and then fell in
love with his own reflection in a forest pool.
The American Psychiatric Association characterizes this
personality disorder as one of 'feelings of superiority' and a 'sense
of entitlement'. These individuals have an unrealistic
view of their talents and worth and feel that their problems and needs,
like their gifts, deserve the utmost priority.
Narcissistic personalities pay very little attention to
other people's feelings or wishes. They feel they should come
first. These people will take advantage of others for their own
benefit without even considering that they have done anything wrong.
When confronted with the evidence, they are often defiant and will call
you a liar.
If this behavior sounds like someone you know, you are
probably right. Narcissism is common and has many levels. It is
often the murderer who feels no remorse or shame for the violent crime he
or she committed. It may also be the inconsiderate driver who
regularly cuts off others or fails to signal. They have a total
disregard for anyone on the road other than themselves.
Another example could be the executive at work who has
been stealing from the company, and when confronted doesn't feel that he
or she did anything wrong and that they were entitled to the money.
They feel no guilt or remorse. Finally, let's not forget the family
members who believe in a false pecking order of family importance and feel
that they have a God-given right to judge the worth of children or
siblings.
Narcissism is a developmental problem and has many
levels of severity. For that reason, there are many levels of
treatment. Some milder forms of treatment are simple punishment
for their behavior. When someone (even children) realizes that there
will be a quick and significant punishment following bad behavior, the
behavior will be corrected. Time and repetition remedies the
personality flaw.
More severe forms Narcissistic behavior require professional
help. When their behavior is destroying other people's lives (or
their own) a simple 'just say no attitude' won't work. These people
were often considered difficult to raise children and their
manipulative mechanisms were well honed by adulthood. Our prisons
are full of Narcissistic people. They want you to believe that their
problems are someone else's fault. They don't feel bad that they did
the crime, they just feel bad that they were caught.
To bring Narcissistic people to a place of stability so
that they can be a contribution to society, instead of a problem, takes a
stern attitude. These people are used to getting their own way
because of some perceived sense of power or entitlement. A stern and
steady pattern of what you will allow around you is a start.
Do not expect a selfish, self-serving person to like it. They
won't. It will, however, start the change.
If you have been paying attention to society, you will
have noticed that things have changed in the past several years. The
lack of respect that people have for each other is disturbing. Even
television and the popular 'reality shows' are disrespectful. I'm
not sure if people no longer care about their behavior because there are
no significant penalties, or if they just don't realize that Narcissistic
behavior can be stimulated without their conscious knowledge? Either
is detrimental to families and communities and without a correction it
will only get worse.
Narcissistic behavior is more common in a society that is
concerned with 'feelings' instead of 'realities'. We
are constantly being told to be concerned about and worry over other
people's feelings, rather than what is right and wrong! The problem
is that the people telling you to have concern for other's feelings have
an agenda that actually uses you to get what they want!
That type of behavior is Narcissistic, immature and does not solve
problems or deal with serious issues. We have been told for too many
years that feelings are equal to accomplishments. They are
wrong! This type of thinking is self-serving and
irresponsible.
To maintain your own stability when dealing with
Narcissistic people, remember that you are in charge of you.
Others cannot control you unless you allow it! Be stern, if not
stubborn, in your convictions of right and wrong, but be fair. You
will be much happier with the outcome.
Take care until next month.....
Dr. Frisch
P.S. Now that I have figured out how
to get x-rays from the view box to the computer screen, I will be able to
bring you injury information and health knowledge that you never
dreamed possible! Stay tuned......it will be fun! |